When you teach your children about money, you have to be aware of the unspoken messages you impart to them — especially to your daughters.
My parents always told me that the sky was the limit, and that I could be anything I wanted — but their actions told me something different. When my brother was 12 years old, he was gifted 200 shares of stock for his birthday. When I turned 12 the following year, I was filled with anticipation of receiving my very own shares. But none came.
I am sure I received a wonderful present for my 12th birthday, but for the life of me, I can’t remember what that gift was. All I remember is that I didn’t get stock shares like my brother did. The unspoken message I heard was, “Investing is for boys.”
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When you stop to think about it, a book is truly amazing. With the turn of a page, a lifetime of knowledge from the world’s most learned people is right in front of your eyes.
A great book can make a lasting impression on a young person. Because of this, a basket of books can be the best present for a high school senior who is moving on to the next stage of his or her life.
Here are some ideas:
- “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Viktor Frankl
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Are you on the hunt for a great gift for the special graduate in your life?
Back in the day, I received a special present — a gold cross pen — from my older cousin who was already in college. I felt so sophisticated!
While writing instruments are a great gift, there are a few less obvious options that can help a college graduate set herself up for financial success in the future. With students graduating with an average of $35,000 in student loan debt, they need a financial leg up more than ever.
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If you were lucky enough to have financial education classes at school or work, you probably learned to save, invest, and reduce debt. But did anyone ever teach you how to spend money?
Living below your means is one of the most important factors of long-term financial success, but it can be tricky — especially as your income increases. I have quite a few clients who make a million dollars a year and spend all of it.
In order to learn to spend your money well — meaning on your needs and things that bring you great value — ask these three questions:
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Teenagers want three things, according to parenting expert Mark Gregston, “To make decisions about themselves, to feel like they’re in control, and to have opportunities to prove their maturity and to show you that they can do it.”
For parents, the good news is that giving them those three things can make them better with money as adults. Teaching kids about finances is best done through experience. The lessons can be like getting a learner’s permit (with adult guidance) before getting a driver’s license (with complete control over the vehicle).
Parents who give their kids control over a portion of their money — and guide them in their decision-making — raise teens who are better prepared for the world. Here are some ideas for giving teens a framework for making money decisions.
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If your child learns the value of a dollar early in life, she’ll turn her future income into wealth.
I’m a career financial planner and a mom, so money lessons were an important part of my kids’ upbringing. As I watch my adult children make money decisions today, I can see that they took the lessons to heart.
My son negotiated a $5,000 bump in salary after receiving his first job offer. As a result of that money move, he may make $600,000 more over his lifetime (according to a study by George Mason and Temple University). Another son saved all of his bonus money and bought himself a condo at age 27. He didn’t want his rent to pay for someone else’s mortgage.
Where do you start with your pre-teen, and what lessons should you teach them?
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Though workplace plans can be imperfect, it’s undeniably easier to save for your golden years when your employer offers a retirement account.
Unfortunately, not all workers have access to a retirement plan at work. According to 2016 research by Pew Charitable Trusts, over one-third of private sector workers (who are not self-employed, farmers, or in the military) do not have access to an employer-sponsored retirement plan.
Moreover, an employer match is a huge incentive for workers to save. According to the Employee Benefit Research Institute’s 2017 Retirement Confidence Study, nearly 3 out of 4 workers who were not saving in their retirement plans would welcome a match. The survey found workers would be somewhat more likely to save if they were offered one.
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When you have a child, your priorities change. This may seem obvious, but it caught me by surprise when I was a new mom.
My career had always brought me a great deal of satisfaction. I had always loved working, so I had no idea how much I’d want to stay home with my baby during those early years.
When my son was four months old, I went to drop him off at childcare to head off to a business meeting. At the childcare center, I rocked him in a rocking chair and suddenly, tears started rolling down my face. I just couldn’t leave him that day. Finally after about 20 minutes, I packed him back up and headed home instead. Right then, I decided my plans needed to change.
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I’ll never forget holding my infant son in my arms and rocking him back to sleep in the middle of the night by the fireplace. In that moment, life stood still for me.
Whenever I think of those early days, that wonderful memory of holding my tiny boy comes back to me as if it were yesterday, even though it was 28 years ago.
Your life will change a lot in your first year as a parent. As with most life milestones, there are a couple of very important financial moves to make during that time.
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